Other people’s views ALWAYS interest me, either they’re hilarious, sad, compelling or….FULL OF SHYT!!!! Below, i’ve listed an opinion on “Infidelity”….PLEASE feel free to chime in and share with me opinion….then i’ll give you the right one (MINE) later…lol
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Infidelity is terrible, yet it seems to be a common practice nowadays. We have seen both celebrities and regular people get caught cheating, and the aftermath has ruined their lives. Some even had their lives taken (R.I.P. Steve McNair). Why do certain people get away with it, and others don’t? I’ll tell you why: Some folks choose wisely, and many do not. While I don’t condone cheating, creeping, or infidelity PERIOD, I’ll say this: if you’re going to do it, do it RIGHT. Don’t embarrass yourself and your family by getting caught up in a scandal that will affect you, your kids, and all other parties involved.There are certain ways that you can successfully choose a jumpoff and not have your dirty laundry broadcasted for everyone to see. Follow these steps and you won’t get beat down and thrown in the middle ofthe desert like R. Kelly in the “Down Low” video:
1) Choose Wisely: You can’t choose a jumpoff in a day. You have toget to know her over time. If you see her spazzing out over othermen, and even blowing up other guys spots, then you’ll know that she’s NOT the kind of player that you want on your team. When guys see asexy female, we automatically want to put her on the squad: this isvery dangerous. You don’t know how volatile her temper is, you don’tknow who she knows, you don’t know if she has that monkey, etc. You have to observe your prey before you pounce, otherwise you may be infor a rude awakening.
2) Be Honest: I know it might seem like an oxymoron in this case, butputting all your cards on the table is the best thing you can do. Tell your potential jumpoff that you are married or involved so thatthere are no discrepancies when it comes to moving up the ladder.Many men promise to get divorces, some say they are about to be separated, and others even plot with the jumpoff to get rid of theirwife. If you tell them up front that you are just in it for the funof it, or that you just like the way that their butt jiggles in liquid leggings, then they won’t be stuck chasing a dream of maybe one day replacing your wife. A woman scorned is the worst monster to create when you are in a relationship.
3) Discretion is the Key: You do NOT need to be MySpace or Facebookfriends with your jumpoff. Nowadays, jpgs float across the net in aninstant. Camera phones and twit-pics can place you at the crimescene, have you convicted, and sentenced all within a 2 hr period. Flashing your jumpoff around in public will make it seem like youdon’t care what anyone thinks…and if you don’t care, why should she?Next thing you know you are getting tagged in a photo album entitled: “Vacation with my Boo:” and your fiancé’s bitter girlfriend is sendingevery last picture to her inbox, then you’re getting jumped by her big brothers at your son’s little league baseball game. Take the time tocover your steps, guys. This is why women cheat so much better than men.
4) Play on an even battlefield: When choosing your jumpoff, try to pick someone who has just as much to lose as you do. An older woman whose husband can’t get it up knows the deal, she sees you when shewants an “o” and that’s that. A 21 year old co-ed will get wrapped upin the affair and try to drop bombs over Baghdad when you break things off with her. Someone who is established in their career is either too busy to put forth such an effort to publicly bash you, or doesn’t want to be outted her damn self. So if you have to choose between a sexy cougar or a young and supple Ms Twerk Somthin’, I suggest you choose the more mature option, it’ll save you time, energy, and possibly your relationship.
Like I said before, I do NOT condone this behavior. But some of youplayers who just can’t kick the habit need to take heed to thisarticle before you find yourself knee deep in legal fees and divorce hearings. Women, the same thing applies to you: I’d hate to seesomething bad happen to you over a creep session gone bad. Like my friend Ekay’s grandmother used to say, “Be good, or be good at it.”
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